High school can be a crazy time in people’s lives. Between relationships, homework, class, and home lives, it can be hard to balance. Sometimes you just need to reach out for advice from people that have been where you’ve been. The Current created “He Said, She Said” to give students a chance to anonymously reach out for advice from two very different people.
“I’m nervous to graduate and head off to college. The uncertainty of starting a totally new phase of my life is making me anxious. What advice would you give to prepare for this change?”
He Said:
Dear Scared to Leave the Nest,
A new chapter in life is never easy or comfortable, but they are essential to our growth. The best and most rewarding experiences in life always come with some level of discomfort. The best advice I can give is to press into this discomfort. Embrace it with an open mind, and allow yourself to grow as you transition into this new phase of life. On top of this a strong support system is always a great idea. A strong group of friends and mentors that are there for you can help to relieve some of the stress and anxiety that inevitably comes with growth. So don’t let the fear control you, but look forward to the joy that can result from new experiences and people.
She Said:
Dear Scared to Leave the Nest,
Starting a new chapter in life is always insanely difficult and anxiety-inducing. Do you remember how you felt when you first came to high school? The anxiety was overwhelming! It’s going to feel just like that, the only difference is you’ll be in a new town or on a new campus that seems far from home. That in itself is scary, I know, but as soon as you sit in that first class, things will seem so familiar. You will learn to love it, and sure it may take a while to make new friends, but in the end, I promise it will all be worth it. At the end of the day, no matter what happens, you will succeed. Remember that a new chapter in our lives is an opportunity to expand our horizons. Look upon this new chapter as a way to go forward and seize the day.
Submit your anonymous questions to “He Said, She Said” at Tellonym.me/HeSaysSheSays to receive advice.
